{"id":4068,"date":"2022-09-01T12:16:16","date_gmt":"2022-09-01T12:16:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/observingothers.com\/?p=4068"},"modified":"2022-09-01T12:31:58","modified_gmt":"2022-09-01T12:31:58","slug":"pretending-spending","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/observingothers.com\/?p=4068","title":{"rendered":"Pretending &#038; Spending"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"4068\" class=\"elementor elementor-4068\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-691755c elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"691755c\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-83163a0\" data-id=\"83163a0\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-edb41db elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"edb41db\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.6.4 - 13-04-2022 *\/\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}<\/style><h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Guest: Dr. Chelsea Adams, Financial Advisor Stratos Wealth Partners<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c750fa5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c750fa5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! 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Instant gratification seeks immediate returns making some bitcoin speculation and day trading closer to gambling rather than long term investing.<\/strong><br \/><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><br \/><strong>Perspective helps keep us from panic. It keeps us level headed when life seems upended. It stops the doping by shopping and pretending &amp; spending.<\/strong><br \/><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><br \/><strong>Find out more about a simple behavior changing habit stacking solution in today\u2019 podcast.<\/strong><br \/><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><br \/><strong>Take a personal inventory.<\/strong><br \/><strong>And start your streak today!\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Guest: Dr. Chelsea Adams, Financial Advisor Stratos Wealth Partners Pretending hides problems. 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